play interests and limits

lists of kinky themes and interests rated by level of desire, as well as limits/boundaries

if you’re interested in playing with me, whether as part of a contracted service or just casually, this is a good starting point for getting to know me. i love thinking and talking about kink with interesting and enthusiastic people. feel free to strike up a chat about any of this!

roles & thematics

• trauma doll aesthetics

• innocence and corruption

• limit testing

• primal predator/prey

• brattiness/taming

• affectionate cruelty

• concubi e.g. succubi

• rapist/victim

• gender invalidation

kinks

faves (enthusiastic about)

• blindfolds

• forcefulness

  • forced entry (requires drugs)

  • held/pinned to walls

  • pulled round by the hair

  • sudden advances

  • molestation/groping

  • rough sex

• large and/or knotted dildos

• stingy impact play

  • scratching/abrasion

  • belts

• blood choking

• hair pulling

• humiliation

  • being made to feel inadequate

  • spitting on my face

• degradation

  • being called worthless

  • feet pressing/grinding my face into the ground

• threats up to and including murder

• submissive acts e.g. thanking you for pain

liked (not always, but recurringly enjoyed)

• anal stretching/training

• handballing aka fisting

• painful anal

• light face slapping

• genital pain

  • ball squeezing

  • cock squishing

  • slapping perineum or balls

• stingy impact play

  • whips

  • knives

• thuddy impact play

  • paddles

  • kicking

• nipple play

  • clamps

  • fingers pinching and twisting

• needle play

• hyper cocks and holes

limits

these are hard limits. we can talk about them, and i encourage you to do so if you’d like to play with me as a submissive. it’s important for you to understand the nuance involved in these, especially if you’re interested in humiliation/degradation, or if we even end up meeting up IRL

• restrictions due to underlying conditions

  • TMJ syndrome (jaw joint disorder)

    • Hard face slapping

    • Ball or bit gags (cloth or tape is probably OK)

  • Herniated disc in neck

    • extended backward-curving neck postures

    • holding arms behind the back for an extended period

• risk of physical trauma requiring significant recovery or medical intervention

• mocking me i.e. repeating my words exactly; this will at least make me not like you

• high protocol

• total power exchange

• invasion of privacy, digital or otherwise

• scat, messing

• vore